Friday, April 26, 2013

A little something about Macedonia




Macedonian Flag Grunge



MACEDONIA
Republic of Macedonia
Population: 2.1 million
Capital: Skopje
Often confused with the Macedonian region of Northern Greece, the republic is a sepa-rate country.
A former state of Yugoslavia. When the republic was formed in 1991, Greece tried to prevent the new nation from taking the name “Macedonia”.
Macedonia currently reports an unemployment rate of over 30%.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Drinking and Driving is a serious offense!


Drinking and driving is responsible for thousands of deaths each year. On a national level, approximately 42,000 people are killed in motor vehicle collisions, and about 16,000 of those deaths are related to alcohol.
Taken on an average, traffic accidents involving alcohol account for one death every 33 minutes, and for one person injured every two minutes, every year.

DUI Charges

If you are charged with driving under the influence of alcohol or drugs (DUI), the first thing you may want to do is consult with an experienced attorney. Kansas is very tough on DUI, and the issue is serious enough that having legal representation is necessary in order to protect your rights.

Blood Alcohol Limits

Blood alcohol concentration (BAC), is the system of measure used to determine the level of alcohol in your bloodstream. It is illegal to drive in Kansas with a BAC of .08% or higher.

Refusing to Test

In Kansas, the DMV regulations state that having a driver's license, means you have given advance permission, or "implied consent" to testing for the presence of alcohol should you be stopped by law enforcement on suspicion of DUI.
Refusing to test is a separate offense from DUI. Even if you are later acquitted of the DUI charges, you will still undergo a license suspension of up to one year for refusing to take the test.
If you are convicted of DUI and refused the test at the time of your arrest, you may be required to pay a higher fine and may have your license suspended for a longer period.

Kansas DUI Law

The Kansas DUI Laws carry stiff penalties. It used to be that only the last five years of your driving record would be taken into account in DUI cases, now your lifetime driving record is considered.

DUI Consequences

DUI is considered a criminal offense, with the fourth or subsequent convictions at the felony level. A DUI conviction carries such penalties as fines up to $2,500, jail time of up to one year, suspended license for up to one year, and mandatory alcohol and drug treatment programs at your own expense. The court costs, supervision fees and other expenses will be your responsibility, too, not to mention increased insurance rates.
If you are arrested for DUI while driving a commercial vehicle, not only will you face the same penalties as a person in a passenger car, but you will automatically lose your CDL (and the main part of your livelihood) for one year.
If you're younger than 21 and are found to have a BAC of .02% or higher, you'll face an automatic 30-day driver's license suspension, followed by 330 days of restricted driving privileges.

DUI With Children in the Vehicle

If you are convicted of DUI and are carrying a child younger than 14 as a passenger, your mandatory incarceration time will increase by one month.

DUI Prevention

The Kansas Highway Patrol has some ideas to help keep impaired drivers off the streets and highways:
  • Always have a "designated driver" if you are with friends and you know there will be drinking
  • Leave your vehicle and use a taxi or a safe ride program
  • If possible, make arrangements to spend the night where you are rather than risk driving after you've been drinking
Driving under the influence can have life-altering consequences for you and mean tragedy to others. It certainly pays to heed the advice above. Doing so can not only save you embarrassment, lots of money, jail time, and emotional turmoil, but it may even help save lives―yours or others'.


Thursday, April 18, 2013

Tornado Safety if you are caught in your car

This is Tornado season time to be prepared

Strong winds from a tornado are capable of picking up debris and depositing it miles away from where it was lifted. If winds are strong enough, cars can be blown over and picked up by the tornado. It is important to know what to do if you are driving and become caught in severe weather.

Trying to outrun a tornado in your vehicle is the number one thing to remember not to do. AccuWeather.com Senior Meteorologist Dave Samuhel said that trying to outrun a tornado is a bad idea because tornadoes have the potential to travel over 60 mph and they don't have to follow road patterns. Driving on a 90-degree angle away from the tornado is a good strategy to follow in order to distance yourself from the tornado.
"A compass or GPS may be helpful to determine which way to drive on a 90-degree angle away from the storm," Samuhel said.
If you see a tornado developing where you are driving, the best thing to do is to pull over and evacuate your vehicle. Seek shelter in the nearest sturdy building or storm shelter; do not hide under your car. The wind could potentially roll your car over. If there is no available shelter, find the nearest ditch or low-lying area and crouch low to the ground covering your head with your arms.
Potentially sturdy structures to look for while driving are fast food restaurants and banks. Fast food restaurants will usually have a cooler that could withstand a tornado similar to a safe in a bank, according to Samuhel. Also, seeking shelter in an interior wall is a good idea.
"The more walls between you and the tornado, the better off you are," Samuhel said.

Underpasses may seem like a safe place to hide, but this is a myth, due to the fact that they are above ground. Winds from a tornado can accelerate through the small places of an underpass causing the potential for the underpass to collapse or your vehicle to be blown away.
In the event of severe weather, it is important to know where a tornado could form and what safety precautions you should follow.
"Know where you are and what counties have watches and warnings issued for them, and keep a watchful eye to the sky," Samuhel said.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Talking with your child about acts or terror

    Upon waking up this morning my thoughts went out to the people in Boston affected by yesterdays bomb attacks. My kids and I watch the news every morning because I believe my kids need to be informed about what is happening in the world and not just their own backyard. The news gives you insight into other cultures and lives and it is reality. When watching the news this morning about the bombs going off during an innocent thing like a marathon, I was at a loss for words on how to explain it to my kids. Why would someone do something like this? It shatters your sense of trust and innocence. I started looking on the web to find some good articles on how to talk to children about acts of violence and terror without scarring them. I found this How to talk to your kids about terror
and How to talk to your kids about the Boston terror

     As parents I think we need to be honest with our kids and tell them the truth about what is going on, but tell them in a way that does not scare them or takes away their trust in people. Focus on the good that comes out of bad. Focus on how more people are there to help and more people do good than to bad. If your children are  a little older discuss what you would do if this were ever to happen to you. We live in a world now where these things can happen to anyone anywhere. It is a time to come together, hug your kids and loved ones tell them you love them Focus on the positive not the negative. Every journey starts with the first step make it a step of love and not hate.


Monday, April 15, 2013

Monday Thought

 
 
 
"We are all travelers in this world and the best we can hope to find is an honest friend"

Friday, April 12, 2013

Great resource for kids with learning disabilities

My daughter suffers from Dyslexia, I sensed it early on and repeatedly tried to get the school involved to get her help, starting in Kindergarten I knew she had a problem with letters and reading. The school told me to calm down and that she would outgrow it. Kids learn at different speeds they told me. But I knew something wasn't right. By the time she was in second grade the problem was very obvious and we had a teacher that believed us and recognized she needed extra help to read and write. She took all the tests and they confirmed my suspicion that she is dyslexic. From then on she got help from the school, extra tutoring, extra time on test, etc. Come fifth grade I realized it still was not enough, she would need more help to be able to keep up with her peers when she starts middle school. I friend pointed to me a learning place on Kansas City called Applied Learning Processes. This place has been amazing and we are seeing results. It is an intense program and a large time and monetary commitment, but well worth it. We are now half way through this program and already seeing results. Our children are our greatest investment ( and expense) I know there is nothing I would not do for mine.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Rematch Myths Revealed

In a program that deals with people, it is natural that occasionally there will be problems. Misunderstandings and miscommunication are facts of life, and sometimes can lead to the end of a match. When there are problems in your match, you can expect to be in communication with your Area Director, so that she can help you and your au pair work through your issues. Should it be necessary, she will come to your home and do a mediation. This is an opportunity for both parties to be heard and possible solutions to be discussed. If things aren’t going well, or a solution cannot be found, the rematch process will be discussed.
It is at this point in many mediations that I encounter the myths that exist about rematch. The impression many people have is that rematch is an easy solution to even the smallest of problems. The reality is that rematch is a big undertaking with consequences. Let’s take a look at some common rematch myths.

MYTH 1: If things aren’t perfect right away, a rematch is best. The adjustment period can take time, and AuPairCare asks all parties to allow 60 days for this transition. Bonding with children, driving, English ability, culture shock and just plain learning how to interact with one another are all a part of this transition.

MYTH 2: There are lots of other families and au pairs to pick from. The pool of families looking for a new au pair and available au pairs changes from day to day - hour to hour, really! Families and au pairs should not expect much variety of new placements to choose from when they are in rematch. Host Families have the option to choose from an overseas au pair, and are encouraged to do so since the pool is so much larger. Au pairs should be prepared to be open to a variety of situations.

MYTH 3: Rematch is a great way to see a new area/have a new experience.  Some au pairs seem to have the idea that if there is even the smallest thing they do not like about their placement, rematch is an easy way to make the switch. Au pairs in rematch are not able to request specific areas of the country. When an au pair in rematch turns down an offer from a family for a new match, it brings into question her dedication to the program. That is not to say that there are not reasons to turn a match down, but it should not be done based on frivolous reasons.

MYTH 4: A rematch will solve the problem. All parties need to closely examine their role in the match to see if there are adjustments or improvements that need to be made. For example, if an au pair has trouble getting home in time for curfew, she should work hard to fix this problem, as it would still be an issue in a new match. Similarly, if one of the children in the host family is not responding to the au pair and acting out, time should be taken to get to the bottom of the issue to make sure another au pair will not have the same situation.

Rematching is sometimes necessary, but never easy. Take time to nuture your relationship with your au pair/host family to prevent the need to rematch. If a rematch does happen, work closely with your Area Director to make it as smooth as possible for everyone involved.


Food for thought


Think about how much “smaller” the world has grown in recent years, and how that trend is likely to continue.  As world economies become more connected, so too do our lives.  Understanding and appreciating differences seems to me to be a definite strength—for everyone involved.

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Helping teach your kids a foreign language

Kids' brains are most susceptible to learning a foreign language from the ages of 0-7. The more you teach them during those years the more they learn. I learned English when I was four years old while we lived in America. We spoke Norwegian at home so I had the benefit of learning two languages fluently. To this day I can switch between the two without any problems.  Check out this link to print out flash cards for Spanish and Mandarin Flash cards.


Monday, April 8, 2013

Childcare that fits your lifestyle

Childcare that fits your needs

Check out this short video about Aupair Care  and how hosting an aupair care be great for you!


Tips on Tipping

In America it is customary to tip when you eat out at a restaurant, between 10-20% is normal. Following is some advice:

RESTAURANT TIPPING ETIQUETTE


Although excellent service calls for 20 percent of the total bill, most U.S. restaurants accept 15 percent as the standard tip. In restaurants where you sit at the bar or the waiter is a small part of the meal (cafes or pubs), 10 percent is also acceptable. The bar tenders, themselves, generally receive between 15 and 20% when you sit at the bar. If the food or service is unsatisfactory, speak to the manager - don't walk out without tipping. And pay attention to lunch and dinner bills in Europe and Asia, as some restaurants tack on an additional 15 percent (usually listed on the menu or check as a "service charge") and do not expect tips. At fancy restaurants, tip the maitre d' between $5 and $10 if he gets you a table - more when the restaurant is full and you have no reservations. Tip $1 when you check your coat, and another $.50 to $1 for restroom attendants. For personal service from the wine steward, opt for 10 percent of the wine bill.
This tipping etiquette will hopefully give you a general idea of the standard tipping rate for different stops along your journey. You are always welcome to tip more when the service is excellent, and when you do, you are sure to see the red carpet treatment all the way.

TIPPING AT AIRPORTS AND TRAIN STATIONS


Upon arriving at or leaving from the airport or train station, tip the standard porter rate of $1 per bag; more if your luggage is very heavy. Typically, a $1 tip for hailing a taxi is appropriate for doormen. However, you may want to tip more for special services, such as carrying your bags.

HOTEL TIPPING ETIQUETTE


When you arrive at your hotel after a long flight, first things first: Tip the taxi or limo driver. Ten to 15 percent of your total fare is usually expected. If you drive your own car, give the valet parking attendant $1 to $2. If you take a shuttle van or bus, tip the driver $2 per person.
Download our wallet-size tipping guide and tipping etiquette
The bellman, who will be more than happy to assist you with your bags and the door, should receive $1 to $2 per bag. Tip when he shows you to your room and again if he assists you upon checkout. Tip more if he provides any additional service. The concierge, who can get you anything from dinner reservations to hard-to-come-by theatre tickets, deserves $5 to $10 for such feats. You may tip at the time of service or at the end of the trip. To ensure good service throughout your stay, add a $20 tip to the bill. Add 15 percent of the bill to a room service charge, unless a gratuity is already added, then add no additional tip or simply $1. If you requested something delivered to your room such as a hairdryer or iron, tip $1 per item received. Typically, the maid deserves a $2 tip each day, as well.

TOUR TIPPING ETIQUETTE


If you're taking a tour and a tip is not automatically included, tip a local guide $1 per person for a half-day tour, $2 for full-day tour. Tip a private guide more. If you are on a multi-day tour with a tour manager - someone who travels with the group for several days and is essentially in charge - tour operators suggest anywhere from $3-8 per person per day. Don't forget the bus driver either - $2 per person per day.

CRUISE TIPPING ETIQUETTE


When on a cruise, tip according to your comfort level and only on the last evening of your cruise. As a general rule, dining room waiters receive $3.50 per person/per day whereas the dining room assistant waiter should receive $2.00 per person/per day, the dining room maitre'd $3.50 per person/per day and the dining room manager $1.50 per person/per day.

The room steward, for all his efforts, receives $3.50 per person/per day. Other personnel, such as bar waiters, bellboys and deck stewards may be tipped as service is rendered.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Child care costs

Childcare Costs Nationwide

What do you pay for childcare? Have you ever wondered if it is the “right” amount? Check out this great article to learn more about childcare costs across the U.S.


Water safety

 
 
 
 
 
Children need constant supervision around water - whether the water is in a bathtub, a swimming pool, a beach or a lake. Always watch children closely when they're in or near water.

Keep these safety tips in mind when your host children are in or near water.


Bath Safety:
  • Before bath time, be sure to prepare the bath, including towels, bath toys, baby shampoo, etc.
  • Ensure the child stays seated while in the bath
  • Never have an older sibling be in charge of their brother/sister in or near water
  • Dry the floor and the child’s feet after a bath to prevent slipping
  • Make sure to drain the tub right away after every bath
Pool/Water Safety:
  • No running, jumping or diving around the pool
  • Keep children away from pool drains, pipes and other openings to avoid entrapment
  • Keep a phone nearby in case of an emergency
  • If the pool is gated, remember to close the gate
  • Avoid distractions when supervising children around water
  • Always have your host children wear a life jacket when boating, fishing or playing in or near deep or fast moving water
It only takes one inch of water for a baby or child to drown. Find more information about water safety from the American Red Cross.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Happy Spring

Now that spring is here, the weather is warmer and the days are longer. That means that many of us will be outdoors, enjoying sports and outdoor activities. However, some sports and activities also have their risks. Sometimes, no matter how careful we are, injuries still occur. It's good to keep in mind the type of injuries that will be covered by the travel insurance that au pairs have. High risk sports such as sky diving, scuba diving, and bungee jumping are not covered by your insurance. Au pairs who are injured while participating in these sports will be responsible for any doctor bills that result. Sports competitions, such as marathons, are also not covered. So get out there and get some exercise! But it's probably wise to avoid risky activities that might result in injuries that are not covered by your insurance. For information about your insurance coverage, go to www.avi-international.info and enter code 640.642. Au pairs who applied though an STS office should call 1.800.871.9211 with questions about coverage.