Tuesday, June 7, 2016
Wednesday, June 1, 2016
Hear From an Au Pair: How to Meet People During your Au Pair Year
One of my main concerns when I was thinking about becoming an au pair was "How would I meet new people?" It turned out to be much easier than I thought. Below are four ways I met people in the U.S. and ways you can make new friends as well!
1. Get to Know Other Girls at Au Pair Academy
My fear about meeting people in the United States was calmed almost instantly as I arrived at Au Pair Academy. At first I was just fascinated by how many people who were so different from me ended up in the same place and time starting this new experience! And what I found out was that we were not that different at all, as we shared a common interest; our love for kids, adventures, travel and our enthusiasm to become independent world citizens by deciding to leave our homes for a whole year to experiment and learn another culture.Some of the people I met at Academy I’m still in touch with four years after those first days of the adventure that changed my life!
2. Take Part in Local Au Pair Events
Once you arrive to your host family’s home, your Area Director will reach out to you. She will help you meet other au pairs in your neighborhood during the monthly activities organized by AuPairCare. Also, in many areas with a large amount of au pairs it is not unusual to find a casual weekly coffee night organized by the au pairs themselves. Attend as many of these events as possible! They are fun, and a great way to integrate yourself into the community.3. Take Part in Free Community Events
In addition to learning something new and developing your professional career, the courses you take during your program are a great opportunity to meet more people. But don't stop at your required classes. Libraries and community centers are other good places to meet people while you learn. Lots of places organize short one-day courses and activities such as movie nights, volunteering programs, creative writing workshops and many other community events created for public enjoyment and education.4. Be Social All Around Town
Americans are well known for being very friendly and open people so don’t be surprised if somebody starts a conversation with you in a park while taking care of the kids, waiting in the bus stop or even in line in the supermarket. Take these opportunities! You could meet other au pairs, nannies or parents who could become friends.Monday, May 23, 2016
Aupair Monthly meetings
Monthly meetings are great times to get together and talk and get to know each other. This month we had a picnic in the park and we took some photos. Every month we do something fun together.
Friday, May 13, 2016
Why choose Aupair Care for your childcare
Once you’ve learned about the benefits and requirements of the au pair program and decided this might be a good fit, it’s time to decide which agency you should go with!
There are lots of choices out there but here at AuPairCare we’re committed to live-in childcare and cultural exchange. Here are some of the most popular reasons families choose AuPairCare:
There are lots of choices out there but here at AuPairCare we’re committed to live-in childcare and cultural exchange. Here are some of the most popular reasons families choose AuPairCare:
Our Au Pairs
Year-round, AuPairCare offers a robust selection of au pairs from all around the world. Becoming an au pair is a rigorous process, and all of our au pairs meet not only the Department of State requirements but extra AuPairCare qualifications as well. Once our au pairs arrive in the US, they attend a 4 day training known as “Au Pair Academy” where we review important development milestones, child safety (including first aid and CPR) and the American way of caregiving. Our Infant Specialized au pairs have a separate but equally intensive training where they focus on the unique needs of babies. Our reputation abroad is that of the top agency, with au pairs eager to come to the U.S as an AuPairCare au pair.Transparent Fees
The au pair program can be one of the most affordable childcare solutions out there, and our goal is to make our pricing as transparent as possible so there are no surprises. From application fees to when payments are due, we include all cost information on our website and Family Room portal, and staff is always available to answer any additional questions you may have.Au Pair Staff
Our staff is truly amazing. Many of our team members have been with the program for 20+ years, and the majority has had au pairs themselves! Whether you want to speak to a Program Advisor at our headquarters about the basics of our program, or your local Area Director to learn about the other AuPairCare families in your community, our staff are experts in au pair childcare and always available to answer any questions you might have.We’re Family
When you look through our blog you’ll see tons of stories about host families and au pairs who loved their experience so much they wanted to share it with us. Our participants are funny, kind, caring and excited about cultural exchange. Most of our new families and au pairs came to us on the recommendation of current participants, and in our last survey 97% of participants said they recommend us to others – so request more information today!Thursday, May 12, 2016
Great time to get an Aupair
Take advantage of this great promotion and get an Aupair for the summer and by the time school starts
Wednesday, May 11, 2016
5 Things Your Nanny or Au Pair Wish You Knew
As a parent, you know that caring for children is tough business.
Those sweet little faces need love, attention, and lots of activities to
keep them busy. So you can imagine that choosing to work as a nanny or
au pair in another person’s home is a rewarding but often difficult job.
To make their life a little easier (and your home run a bit more
smoothly), we asked a few nannies and au pairs to tell us the top 5
things they wish you knew.
- It’s so much easier as a team.
Parents, you may have experienced this yourselves: one parent
unintentionally undermines the other when it comes to discipline. It is
crucial that you work with your nanny to make sure everyone is on the
same page and supportive of disciplinary decisions. Showing your kids
that you respect your nanny by following through on a punishment she
gave sends the message that she is an authority figure. It also makes
her job much easier the next time she tells little Johnny that if he
does not stop spitting, he’ll be in time out. He’ll quickly remember
that even though mommy came home, she made him stay until he had done
his time and apologized.
- She is a professional. This means she’ll do a great
job, take on some extra projects and keep things organized. It also
means that she deserves support, consideration and respect. Respect of
course means how you speak to her, but also respect for her time, things
and interests. If you say you’ll be home at 6pm, be home at 6pm and be
sure you send a quick text if you are running a few minutes late. Give
ample notice when plans change and try to accommodate special requests,
knowing she will do the same.
- The little details make all the difference. Imagine
spending all day with a cranky toddler, who doesn’t want to eat much
and just wants to be held. Then, when mom comes home and nanny reports
the days’ events, mom says, “Oh, I’m not surprised. We noticed last
night she is getting a new molar”. Yikes – wouldn’t this information
have been helpful to your nanny before her day started? Even if she
lives in your home, the little details about your day or your child’s
current health may not be obvious to her, so it’s important to convey
those details. As awesome as your nanny or au pair is, she is not a
mind-reader, so it’s crucial to share everything both verbally and on
paper.
- She has a plan. Not only does your nanny or au pair have a plan for each day,
but it is likely one that you have helped her to craft. So whenever
possible, respect that plan and try not to throw a wrench in. Give her
ample notice when things will be a little different and try not to throw
out last minute schedule or activity changes. It’s also important to
remember that while she might not do things exactly as you would, if
your kids are happy and responding well, her method might be the best
way. This is a tough one to admit, but sometimes a nanny’s time in the
trenches has taught her a few things even mom and dad had not
considered.
- She is a person, too. It sounds a little silly, but it is true! Your au pair may read, sing, act – it could be anything, but the fact is that she has a life outside of your family and great talents and ideas to share. Your whole family can learn from her and grow as a result. Take some time to get to know her unique interests and encourage her to share these with your kids.
Wednesday, May 4, 2016
She’s not just a childcare provider, she’s a member of our family. She’s my parenting partner.
My friends have a nanny.
She’s nothing short of amazing. She does the kids’ laundry, packs their
lunches, makes baby food, organizes toys, you name it. She arrives 10
minutes early and often stays a few extra minutes at the end of the day
to let the parents take off their shoes and change into “parent mode”
after they get home from a stressful day in the office. I only hear good
things.
What I don’t hear is this:
“My nanny subscribed to a parenting website so she could get additional tips and tricks on how to potty train my kids”
“My nanny celebrated her birthday with us and posted photos of the cupcakes she and my kids made on her social media”
“My nanny changed her plans this weekend to come on an Easter Egg hunt with our family”
These are the things I experience hosting an au pair. She’s not just a childcare provider, she’s a member of our family. She’s my parenting partner.
She’s our 3rd party, objective opinion when my husband and I are arguing about where to hang the new piece of wall art we just brought. She spends time while the kids are napping looking up ways to help our children’s development or fun crafts she can do with them that afternoon. She created a Facebook group to send the grandparents photos of the kids daily. She went out shopping with her au pair friends and came home with fun things to do with our kids rather than new clothes (don’t get me wrong, she likes to shop for clothes too). This is who I want watching my kids. Someone invested in not just a job, but a family. I am grateful each day when I leave my kids for work that someone who loves them that much is taking care of them every day.
What I don’t hear is this:
“My nanny subscribed to a parenting website so she could get additional tips and tricks on how to potty train my kids”
“My nanny celebrated her birthday with us and posted photos of the cupcakes she and my kids made on her social media”
“My nanny changed her plans this weekend to come on an Easter Egg hunt with our family”
These are the things I experience hosting an au pair. She’s not just a childcare provider, she’s a member of our family. She’s my parenting partner.
She’s our 3rd party, objective opinion when my husband and I are arguing about where to hang the new piece of wall art we just brought. She spends time while the kids are napping looking up ways to help our children’s development or fun crafts she can do with them that afternoon. She created a Facebook group to send the grandparents photos of the kids daily. She went out shopping with her au pair friends and came home with fun things to do with our kids rather than new clothes (don’t get me wrong, she likes to shop for clothes too). This is who I want watching my kids. Someone invested in not just a job, but a family. I am grateful each day when I leave my kids for work that someone who loves them that much is taking care of them every day.
Tuesday, May 3, 2016
10 Fears and Misconceptions about Hosting an Au Pair
You’ve seen one of our ads, you’ve talked to your friends or maybe you’ve gone so far as to apply to the program. But something is holding you back from moving forward with the au pair process. It’s easy for us to tell you all the great things about the program, we’ve got a story of a host family and au pair starting a business together, host families traveling to their au pair’s home country and tons of ultimate au pair stories. But what you want to know is what it’s really like to have an au pair. So below we’ve addressed some of the most common fears and misconceptions host families have about the au pair program!
10. Fear: The Au Pair Lives With Us?
This is a biggie – it is probably the number one concern friends and family who are unfamiliar with the program will bring up to you! The key is to get as familiar with the au pair as you can during the interview process, and there are plenty of tools to help with that. Between our interview guides and Match Experts, our goal is to facilitate successful matches. We encourage families to really get to know their au pair candidates. Multiple video interviews with prospective au pairs are mandatory and families can take as long as they need to make a selection. Ultimately we want you to feel the person coming to care for your kids is someone you can trust.9. Misconception: Au Pairs Aren't Experienced.
Your kids are everything. Whether they are being perfect little angels (most of the time!) or complete terrors (once in a while), they’re yours and you don’t want any caregiver denying them compassion and respect. We think that the best way for au pairs to develop that skillset is with experience! That’s part of why you can see each au pair’s verified childcare experience hours on their au pair profile. If you choose an infant specialized au pair, know that they have specific experience with kids under two.8. Fear: There’s Too Much Commitment With an Au Pair, Especially when Compared to Nannies and Daycare!
We’ve spent a lot of time comparing nannies, daycares and au pairs, in fact you can call us any time for our Ultimate Guide to Childcare. There are pros and cons to each option and maybe in some cases a nanny or daycare is best for your family. But we’re biased and we really feel that au pairs give you the best bang for your buck. When life happens - a work deadline is moved up or your spouse can’t pick up the kids, the flexibility of an au pair is unparalleled. And having a caregiver that is just focused on your kids means so much for their growth and development.7. Misconception: If Things Don’t Work Out With My Au Pair, I Won't Have Options.
Not every placement is perfect. The goal is for everyone to have the ultimate au pair but we would be disingenuous to not acknowledge that sometimes things don’t work out. It can be as simple as a difference in personalities or a wave of au pair homesickness. Whatever the reason, we take placement transitions and rematch seriously - we want you to have the right au pair for your family. Before the program starts we outline everything in your childcare agreement; mediation options, timelines, costs for a match break and your options for finding a new au pair. Above all we do our best to support you and your au pair because ultimately we want you both to be in situations that are positive, safe, and happy.6. Fear: My Kids Will Get Attached and Then My Au Pair Will Leave.
The length of an au pair year program varies. After the initial program year of 12 months, an au pair and host family can decide to extend for an additional 6, 9 or 12 months. The maximum time an au pair can stay in the US is 2 two years. Those goodbyes can be difficult – host families and au pairs really do grow to love one another, so our solution is not to sever that bond! We’ve heard stories of host families going to the weddings of their au pairs years after their program ended. Families and au pairs that get the most out of this program are those that committed to the spirit of cultural exchange.5. Misconception: Having an Au Pair is Like Having Another Child.
Au pairs in the U.S. that are part of a Department of State regulated au pair agency will be between 18 and 26 years old. They’ll need a private bedroom in your home and you will set rules with them about curfews, use of the car and appropriate house rules. But remember, your au pair is also a secondary school graduate that is mature enough to make the decision to come to another country alone for a life changing experience. While they will definitely have a learning curve coming into your home, many host parents find au pairs to be like a younger sibling than another child.4. Fear: An Au Pair Will Have Poor English Skills.
Certain au pairs will be stronger in English than others, but all au pairs speak the language conversationally. Most families see their au pairs improve their language exponentially in just the first month or so of being in the country. They’ll pick up nuances that aren’t always taught in school. Our Matching Expert can have an in depth conversation with you about which au pairs to interview that will meet your family’s needs. You can also ask for the The Parent’s Guide to Au Pair Countries of Origin, which will give you some pointers not only on the average English level of the au pair country of origin you’re looking for, but also the communication styles and driving abilities that will work best for your household.3. Misconception: Au Pairs Just Want a Ticket to America.
Au pairs do want to be in America, they want exposure to our culture and to experience life in a new country. But the accepted applicants in our au pair pool have established lives in their home countries; families, friends and job opportunities to return to. We do everything we can to make sure that the au pairs in our pool are committed to being the best care givers they can be and are intent on returning home at the end of their program in accordance with Department of State Regulations.2. Fear: My Kids Will Spend More Time With the Au Pair Than Me.
Working moms and dads are well aware of the necessary compromise that comes with being a parent and having a career. So when an au pair comes into the picture and spend the time we wish we had for our kids, it’s not uncommon to feel a twinge of jealousy. The key is to remember that au pairs can help free up some of your personal time. If she happens to be preparing the kids’ meals, or doing the kids’ laundry – you now have some time to read a story or play a game with your little ones. Au pairs can offer a balance you may never have considered.1. Misconception: Au Pairs are for the Wealthy!
With the growing costs of raising a child, sometimes it feels like children are for the wealthy! In all seriousness child care costs can be very high, but live-in childcare can be an affordable option. The traditional au pair program costs $18,183 no matter how many children you have. Compare that to your local annual childcare costs and more often than not you’re looking at a bargain. Au pair care shouldn’t be considered cheap childcare, but rather an enriching cultural exchange program that benefits both the au pair and your children!Monday, May 2, 2016
5 Things NOT to Ask When Interviewing Your Childcare Provider
Finding the perfect childcare provider for your family can be hard,
especially when undergoing the interviewing process. How do you
accurately judge the skill sets and compatibilities of candidates in
such a brief encounter? The following 5 tips on what not to ask
potential caregivers will help you get to know your future caregiver and
assess whether they are up for the job.
1. No Leading Questions Allowed
Leading questions can prevent you from receiving honest answers from your interviewee. Remember, the person you are interviewing wants to impress you, so if you ask a question that points them towards the answer, they may just say what you want to hear. Instead, try an open ended, neutral and descriptive question.
Don’t Ask: “My children get up very early and want breakfast shortly after. Are you a morning person?”
Do Ask: “Tell me what part of the day you are most productive - are you a night owl, morning person or do you prefer midday?”
Do Ask: “Tell me what part of the day you are most productive - are you a night owl, morning person or do you prefer midday?”
2. Don’t Leave Everything Open-Ended
While open-ended questions are often effective (like the question above), they don’t always reveal the whole picture of what you’re trying to discover. Being specific can help in situations where your interviewee may need a bit more guidance to answer the question that you’re really asking.
Don’t Ask: “What do you like to do in your free time?”
Do Ask: “What did you do yesterday? What are you plans this weekend?”
Do Ask: “What did you do yesterday? What are you plans this weekend?”
3. Avoid Making Assumptions
Looking at a potential caregiver's resume will inevitably raise questions about their past experience and what type of caregiver they would be. It’s important not to make assumptions about why they’ve chosen to apply for this job and instead have an open dialogue during the interview to find out. You’ll be surprised at the multifaceted response you may receive.
Don’t Ask: “You have a lot of education, why would you want to care for kids all day?”
Do Ask: “Why do you want to care for my children and what do you hope to learn?”
Do Ask: “Why do you want to care for my children and what do you hope to learn?”
4. Never Lead with the Negatives
You aren’t the only one who wants a caregiver to be a great fit for your family – she wants to find the right household too! If you lead with what can be perceived as the negative aspects of working with your family, you may scare away potential candidates. Think of how your supposed ‘negatives’ can be turned into positives.
Don’t Ask: “We never really travel or take vacations, is that ok with you?”
Do Ask: “We love to stay at home and explore our great city, how does that sound?”
Do Ask: “We love to stay at home and explore our great city, how does that sound?”
5. Don’t Settle at the Surface
Sometimes yes/no answers that can seem satisfactory don’t actually paint the entire picture of what you want to know. Don’t be afraid to ask probing questions until you feel that you’ve discovered all the facts, instead of just receiving your interviewee’s personal opinion.
Don’t Ask: “Are you a good driver?”
Do Ask: “How often do you drive? What type of car do you drive? Have you ever been in an accident? Who taught you to drive? Have you driven with kids?”
Running a successful interview takes patience and practice. We hope
these 5 tips help you find the right caregiver for your family!Do Ask: “How often do you drive? What type of car do you drive? Have you ever been in an accident? Who taught you to drive? Have you driven with kids?”
Thursday, April 16, 2015
How about getting an Aupair from Sweden
Now is the time to start looking for childcare for the summer. Why not get an aupair to care for your children. It is a great program, it is flexible, affordable and a wonderful way to learn about other cultures and people.
AupairCare is here to help.
AupairCare is here to help.
Thursday, February 19, 2015
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
Great time to get an AUPAIR
Apply now and get an aupair and extra set of hands for the summer. Now is the time to start planning for your summer childcare needs.
Friday, November 7, 2014
Take a moment and smell the roses
We could all take some time out and get away from our phones, computers, social media and the virtual world. I feel like a broken record saying this over and over but it is important to know the boundaries of your phone usage. This goes for families as well as aupairs, whether your nose is stuck on the computer for work or for social reasons the end result is the same for all those around you. Look up and talk to one another. You may learn something, feel something, smell something. Human relations uses all the senses, it is multi dimensional...phones and social media are one dimensional.
Thursday, November 6, 2014
What is an Aupair?
An au pair is a young adult from another country who lives with your family and provides in-home childcare services. Au pairs work up to 45 hours per week, in exchange for the opportunity to live with an American family. Because au pairs provide live-in childcare, they offer more flexibility and can care for your child at times that accommodate your family's schedule.
All AuPairCare au pairs:
Have extensive childcare experience
Speak conversational English
Have completed a secondary education
Are between 18 to 26 years old
Families can select au pairs based on nationality, language, age, driving skills, gender and special abilities such as swimming, cooking, sports and music. AuPairCare is committed to finding the right au pair match for your family.
An au pair is much more than a babysitter. Here are some things that differentiate AuPairCare au pairs from other childcare options:
Au Pair Responsibilities - In addition to childcare services, an au pair provides busy parents with a much needed, extra set of hands. An au pair's duties include childcare and light housekeeping related to childcare.
Nannies vs. Au Pairs - An au pair is much more than a nanny. An au pair lives in your home and becomes a part of your extended family while acting as a loving caregiver for younger children and a big sister to older children. You can also learn about the value and benefits of an au pair vs. other childcare services.
AuPairCare offers several great au pair program options, including the popular year-long au pair program and the Infant Specialized au pair program, for families with infants (0-12 months) or are expecting. Select the childcare option that best fits your needs!
Many Au Pair Choices - Search actual AuPairCare Au Pair Profiles. We recruit high-quality au pairs from more than 40 countries, offering a wide array of candidates to choose from.
http://www.aupaircare.com/
Friday, October 24, 2014
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Tuesday, October 21, 2014
Kansas City - The best kept Secret in America
Kansas City is the best kept secret. Families if you are looking for selling points to your aupairs look no further and aupairs if you were unsure about coming to Kansas City read this article and you will be sold! Anyone can go to San Fransisco or New York but the true dreamers and believers come to Kansas City! Go ROYALS!
Kansas City here we come
Thursday, August 21, 2014
This article makes having an aupair seem almost free and so much better!
(CNN Money)
It seems like a parental dream: A college-educated babysitter shows up, leads your kids through homework, dinnertime and a masterpiece art project, cleans the house and then gives you a report card of how the evening went.
This dream can be a reality thanks to high-end babysitting services in New York City, but it comes at a price -- up to $33 an hour.
Sitters Studio, a network of more than 100 caretakers in New York and Chicago, charges about $25 for one child, and the rate goes up depending on how many kids are at home. There's also a $20 booking fee each time a parent reserves a sitter and a four-hour minimum.
That means for one night out, a one-child family would pay $120.
Kristina Wilson, Sitters Studio's CEO, said that while the cost is high, parents are getting a lot for their money. All their sitters are required to show up ten minutes early with a tote bag filled with "artistic toys," abide by a no-TV policy, and they are required to make sure all homework and household tasks are complete.
Plus, because the company doesn't pay sitters in cash, the service is able to provide families with full documentation of what they paid. This means they can apply for Child and Dependent Care credit on federal tax returns.
Related: 'The most surprising cost of raising my kid'
"On top of the picking children up from school and mealtime, the kids will get a unique artistic experience every time," she said. "If our sitter works with a child to come up with a ballet or a piece of art made out of recycled materials, at the end of the night, they will fill out a report card to let the parent know what they created and how it helped with self-esteem and general creative thinking."
A number of babysitting services have cropped up to capitalize on the high price parents are willing to pay.
Hamptons Babysitters, established to cater to vacationing families in the famed, ritzy beach towns on New York's Long Island, sets parents up with CPR-certified sitters who are 18 and over, have passed background checks, and are guaranteed to show up on time.
"We usually get families who maybe don't have their nannies or usual sitters out at the beach, but want to be able to go out and leave their children with a sitter they can trust," said Chloe Laundrie, a 22-year-old Hamptons Babysitter who just graduated college with a degree in elementary education. She is now running the service's business end as well.
There's a three-hour minimum, and the service charges $25 an hour for one child, and $33 for three. On top of this, there's a $25 booking fee.
Related: Kumbay-OMG! A $16,000 price tag for summer camp
These rates are shockingly high, even given the fact that babysitters in New York are ranked the most expensive in the country.
The average hourly rate for one child in New York is $15.34, according to a survey of 7,500 families conducted by UrbanSitter. That's $1.21 more per hour than the national average, and even beats out babysitter rates in other big cities like San Francisco, Los Angeles. D.C. and Boston.
By comparison, the national average hourly pay for preschool teachers is $15.11, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics -- and that's for teaching a whole class. And of course, the federal minimum wage is $7.25 an hour.
Related: How much will it cost to raise your child?
Laundrie said that parents don't seem to mind the cost.
"I hear moms say they can't put a price on childcare," she said. "Even though the [rates] are a little bit higher, they understand most of the time."
Wednesday, August 13, 2014
Past aupairs share your story!
http://www.aupaircare.com/alumni
If you are a past Aupair Care aupair please share your story on the link!
If you are a past Aupair Care aupair please share your story on the link!
Sunday, August 3, 2014
FAITH IN CHILDCARE
An au pair brings friendship and comfort to a mother with two special needs boys.
There is a daily routine at Diane Sherwood’s home: get the boys up, dressed, fed and prepared for the day.
While this appears to be a normal routine for most families, Diane wouldn’t be able to work and provide for
her special needs boys without the help of her au pair, Gaby Itzel. Diane has had five wonderful cultural
exchange au pairs from AuPairCare and has experienced how these au pairs can really become part of the
family But Gaby was the first to stay beyond her initial year. Knowing the special challenges involved, she
chose to stay with Diane and her boys.
A single mom who works from home as a
Director of Finance and Human Resources for the
Pennsylvania Restaurant & Lodging Association,
Diane has always attempted to find the elusive
balance between family and work. Over five years
ago, a career move to North Carolina and then to
the Kansas City region took her away from her
family in Pennsylvania, which also meant she lost
the childcare that was provided by her close knit
relatives. Unable to work without childcare, she
began seeking live in
childcare options that would
allow her to continue to be present yet work from
home. She determined that au pairs were the
answer as live in
care was critical. Both her
young boys are special and high needs, requiring
reliable and special needs experienced childcare.
After much research, Diane decided to use
AuPairCare’s services because she felt the au
pairs from AuPairCare met her specific needs.
“All of our au pairs have been amazing,” reflects
Diane. “The au pairs were always sweet and
friendly, and while they all took great care of my
boys I was fortunate to have the added benefit of
forming deep personal friendships with some of
them.”
There is a daily routine at Diane Sherwood’s home: get the boys up, dressed, fed and prepared for the day.
While this appears to be a normal routine for most families, Diane wouldn’t be able to work and provide for
her special needs boys without the help of her au pair, Gaby Itzel. Diane has had five wonderful cultural
exchange au pairs from AuPairCare and has experienced how these au pairs can really become part of the
family But Gaby was the first to stay beyond her initial year. Knowing the special challenges involved, she
chose to stay with Diane and her boys.
A single mom who works from home as a
Director of Finance and Human Resources for the
Pennsylvania Restaurant & Lodging Association,
Diane has always attempted to find the elusive
balance between family and work. Over five years
ago, a career move to North Carolina and then to
the Kansas City region took her away from her
family in Pennsylvania, which also meant she lost
the childcare that was provided by her close knit
relatives. Unable to work without childcare, she
began seeking live in
childcare options that would
allow her to continue to be present yet work from
home. She determined that au pairs were the
answer as live in
care was critical. Both her
young boys are special and high needs, requiring
reliable and special needs experienced childcare.
After much research, Diane decided to use
AuPairCare’s services because she felt the au
pairs from AuPairCare met her specific needs.
“All of our au pairs have been amazing,” reflects
Diane. “The au pairs were always sweet and
friendly, and while they all took great care of my
boys I was fortunate to have the added benefit of
forming deep personal friendships with some of
them.”
Gaby has been no exception. Early in the interview process during their Skype sessions, Diane was drawn
to Gaby’s positive personality, also noting her excellent English which she learned in El Salvador at her high
school. She discovered that despite this being Gaby’s first experience as an au pair, she brought with her a
wealth of special needs childcare experience and skills from having spent time working with special needs
children at her church. This piqued Diane’s interest. She went on to learn that faith was an important
cornerstone to Gaby’s life. This was the final piece to selecting Gaby as Diane’s own religious beliefs are
important to her daily life. After many Skype calls with Diane and her boys, Gaby arrived in March of 2013.
Gaby does what other AuPairCare au pairs do –
she engages and provides exceptional childcare.
In conjunction with their special education in the
public school system, she creates fun and
inspiring activities adapted especially for these
boys that often involve the whole family. The boys’
unique medical problems create special
challenges, and Gaby has learned to provide the
treatments when Diane is working. But it isn’t just
the medical care that is a challenge. Anyone that
has a child with any form of disability knows the
physical, mental and emotional toll it can take and
sharing these challenges with another person is
critical.
“Gaby has become one of my favorite au pairs,” said Tajana Alvegard, AuPairCare’s Area Director for
Kansas City. “Despite Gaby’s young age, she is a very mature, patient and is able to be there for the host
mom as well as be there for the kids. The host mom and au pair have a great relationship and it has turned
into a real friendship. She has a heart of gold.”
Their friendship extends past their mutual bond of the boys. They both worship together at Life Church in the
Kansas City area. This dynamic, outreach oriented
church offers foundational values, some of which include
genuine community, local outreach and world missions. Gaby spends much of her time here, involved with
the college ministry on Tuesdays and the children’s faith programs, as she is deeply rooted in any form of
volunteerism.
“We can all learn something from her,”
added Tatjana. “Gaby always reaches out
to the new au pairs when they arrive to
make them feel welcome. She’s also
always the first to help or pickup
au pairs
for meetings if they need a ride.
Throughout their relationship, Diane and
Gaby have acknowledged that their
relationship is stronger and deeper. Only
a few weeks ago, Gaby had the day off
and texted Diane in the evening and
asked her to have dinner. Diane was very
touched by this because Gaby had chosen to spend her free time with her having dinner out together as
friends.
“God wants me to help others,” shares Gaby. “Diane and the boys are changing my life and I’m being taught
about faith in an entirely different way. When I went to visit my family in El Salvador, I didn’t realize how
much I was going to miss my [American] family. My love for Diane and the boys grew even more when I was
gone and I found myself homesick for them.”
Diane couldn’t agree more.
“She has become my right hand, sister, daughter and best friend all in one,” said Diane. “She’s a package
deal! I can’t imagine my life without her. God is certainly blessing my family.”
End of Summer water safety
Only a few more weeks of summer left. Don't let down your guard while at the pool, lake or ocean when you are watching children. A child can drown in only a few inches of water so be careful. Stay off your phones and the virtual world. Be Present in this world and enjoy the last weeks of summer and sun!
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